Having crushes towards people is a natural feeling on a human race. It can be a crush towards a popular kid on your school, a crush towards a fictional character that you read in your favourite novel, a crush towards a celebrity that when you see him/her you'll burst out and crey, etc. And those feelings won't last forever. Yes it gains but at the end it will just fade. We can talk about about, what type of admirer are you, how wuill you react if someone has a crush on you, etc.
There are different types of admirers. To start their "some-sort-of-lovelife" session, you must have your "Turn-on point." In that stage—suppose you don't have any crush at all, then your opposite sex will do something attractive (the natural things like hobbies, etc that he/she doesn't know that it's attractive for you) for you and you will feel mesmorised because of that attractive thing he/she did, and that will jump into the next stage that is, "fanatisising" session.
In that point, if your crush has a Twitter or Facebook, you will add them as your friend and if you're friends since then on Facebook, for sure you will burst out; then you'll follow him/her on Twitter and the same thing, that if he/she follows you on Twitter definitely you'll burst. Going back to Facebook. Since you can post pictures there, definitely he/she can also post his/her pictures so for sure—what you'll do is to see his photos, then your face—crumbling and it's either to save his/her pictures on your phone or print it secretly without your parents knowing it and paste it on your journal.
For the ones who have a deep crush towards celebrities, singers, etc. I'm sorry to say but honestly it's unrequited (means it won't lasts forever).In your situation, if it's not unrequited, lucky you. You will tend to search for the pictures of your celebrity crush on the web and save it and your feelings will fade afterwards.
Going back. Then you will go to the next stage which is the "friends-will-know-your-crush-and-they'll-tease-you" session. Admit it, because in this stage, it is now obvious that you're obsessed towards your crush but your very coward to introduce yourself to your crush, well, your friends will do the rest. Believe me.
Then the next stage will be "Introduction-to-your-crush-while-you're-stumbling-over-what-to-say" session. In this stage—it is connected from the previous stage and because of the previous stage, your friends will approach your crush to have your "introduction-towards-each-other" effect. This thing is the scene where you will introduce yourself to your crush and he/she will do the same, and shake hands will follow. And I know after that shake hand session you will cherish your hands because he/she held it.
In the next stage it will be seperated: one is the positive and one is the negative depending on the reaction of your crush if he'll know that you are his/her admirer.
On the positive side:
This is what I call, "he/she-is-also-attracted-to-you" session. You don't even know that it's either he/she has a crush on you since then so the next stage will be the "Mutual Understanding" stage, "BF-GF" stage, etc. which I won't elaborate anymore because it's part of the "General Lovelife" stage.
On the negative side:
Your crush will feel bitterness all over and he/she will deny all things against you. You will know that in the future then your feelings will fade because of his bad attitude towards you and you'll also feel that bitterness that he/she experienced.
I found a quote over here. Honestly, addressed for girls but let's make it very general.
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